long time no see.
as yesterday i met some friends and we suddenly became serious about talking of loneliness, i couldn´t sleep tonight. i was thinking. we agreed, that we´re alone, everyone of us. we were 4. but why we couldn´t find out. of course you never want to face the big negativ aspects of your own personality. but the problem was, that i couldn´t tell my friends, why the hell they´re alone. i know it for myself as i don´t know it for myself. but for them... i don´t know. she* said, that it´s about her look. many people tell her, that she looks too serious and that she never smiles. but well, i added, that i smile a lot and i am in the same situation. she said, that it´s all about, how you look, when you first meet someone. i totally agree with her. i think, it´s kind of unfair and not right, but it´s natural, that we only want to get in contact with someone, we find attractive. ok, i mean, sometimes we just meet people in groups more often for other reasons and may find out, that she or he is a great person regardless his/her appearance. but that happens far too seldom. we couldn´t find anything at each other, that would totally annoy us. probably the situation is even worse, when we don´t know, what to change. but then it´s kinda cool as well, that your friends wouldn´t mind being together with you. :-)
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